it's 1am. everyone is busy getting married, giving birth, having their 2nd kid and guess what..yes im still outside working. im a night owl yes. i love working at 11-3am that sort of timings cos it's quiet and condusive. just need a cup of coffee/smoothie and my laptop. i dont expect people to pity me for sleeping very late/very little cos i like this kind of serenity and also one more thing that i dont like people to do. i dont expect people to change their lifestyles to fit me. all along i have been saying to people is that if you're the same, great. if not, i'll try to free up time to fit yours into mine.

it's really not easy and tbh im tired too. 9-6/7/8 pm work, then volunteering/teaching/church/gym/friends/social/dinners/hq/events. i try to make time for everyone i care about but if the other party aint willing then not worth it huh?